Purchase, Usage, Safety, and Care Guide
Want to buy a sex toy but feeling shy? You’re not alone in wanting to explore your pleasure.
The women's sexual wellness market in Australia is experiencing remarkable growth, with the industry valued at approximately AUD 150 million and projected to expand at an annual growth rate of 8–10% over the coming decade.
This isn't just numbers on a spreadsheet — it's cultural shift reflecting how Australian women are increasingly prioritising their own pleasure and their sexual health
Vibrators represent the largest and fastest-growing segment of the market, alongside dildos, Kegel balls, and premium lubricants. What's particularly exciting is the technological evolution happening in real time. App-controlled devices, rechargeable innovations, and ergonomic designs crafted from body-safe materials are transforming how women approach their intimate wellness.
Special Occasions to Celebrate with Toys
- Valentine's Day
- Anniversaries and Relationship Milestones
- Birthday Celebrations
- Post-Breakup Solo Exploration
- Bachelorette Parties and Girls' Weekends
- Return to Intimacy after Pregnancy
But these are just suggestions. If you have something else in mind, go right ahead.
Understanding What to Buy: A Product Tour
Vibrators
Vibrators are the gateway to sexual exploration — versatile, intuitive, and endlessly customisable. Whether you prefer gentle humming or powerful pulsations, vibrators offer immediate gratification. Magic Touch Fun and Playboy Pleasure offer reliable options that deliver satisfying sensations without fuss.
Rabbit Vibrators
Named for their distinctive design, rabbit vibrators deliver simultaneous internal and external stimulation—one shaft for penetration and a smaller "arm" for clitoral contact, combining potential vaginal and clitoral sensations into a full-bodied experience. They're versatile enough for solo exploration or partnered play, and they remain the bestselling category for women. Brands like Magic Touch Fun excel at creating rabbits with multiple vibration patterns.
G-Spot Stimulators
Slightly curved and often shorter than traditional vibrators, G-spot stimulators are precision instruments designed to target the sensitive tissue 1-3 inches inside the vagina on the anterior (front) wall. The curved design allows for that signature "come here" motion that makes G-spot stimulation so effective. These toys transform the hunt for your G-spot into an exciting discovery rather than a frustrating mystery.
Clitoral Suction Air-Pulse Toys
Clitoral suction vibrator is an innovative device that uses pulsing air patterns rather than direct vibration, creating a sensation similar to gentle suction. They create rhythmic pressure waves that many find intensely pleasurable. These aren't toys that ‘buzz’; they suck (in a very good way).
Wands
Originally designed for massage, wands have evolved into powerful pleasure tools. Their broad heads allow varied pressure and application for clitoral, external, or partnered play.
Clitoral Vibrators
Compact and focused, clitoral vibrators deliver targeted stimulation exactly where you want it—from simple bullets to advanced devices with programmable patterns.
Dildos and Dongs
For those who prefer non-vibrating sensations, dildos offer the pleasure of penetration combined with complete control over pace and pressure. Available in diverse materials—glass, silicone, stainless steel—dildos can be warmed, cooled, or used with partnered penetration for couples' play. They're the simplest toys, yet often the most satisfying for those who know exactly what they love.
Kegel Balls Pelvic Floor Trainers
Kegel balls serve dual purposes: medical-grade exercisers that strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and pleasure devices that enhance sensation. Regular use improves bladder control, supports sexual arousal, and can intensify orgasms by creating stronger pelvic floor contractions. Beyond the practical health benefits—which include better control, enhanced sexual pleasure, and improved continence—they represent an investment in long-term intimate wellness.
Anal Play Toys
Designed specifically for anal play, these toys feature flared bases for safety and graduated sizes for comfortable exploration. Starting small and progressing slowly is essential.
Sex Toy Kits Sets
For the undecided or the curious, curated sex toy kits & sets offer variety at better value. These collections typically include multiple toy types, allowing you to sample different sensations and discover your preferences without committing to individual purchases.
Pumps Sex Machines
For hands-free pleasure or deeper penetration, these devices provide a unique dimension of sensation and are ideal for longer sessions.
The Material Matters: Making Safe, Informed Choices
Medical-Grade Silicone
This is the material you should prioritise. Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, meaning it doesn't harbour bacteria, viruses, or fungi. It's hypoallergenic, incredibly durable, and easy to clean. Platinum-cured silicone (rather than peroxide-cured) is even safer, as all chemicals are fully consumed during the manufacturing process. All top brands prefer using medical-grade silicone for precisely this reason. The investment is worthwhile—these toys last years, feel supple against sensitive tissues, and genuinely improve with age.
Borosilicate Glass
Non-porous like silicone but with a completely different sensation, borosilicate glass toys are exceptionally durable (despite appearing delicate), easy to sanitise, and can be warmed or cooled for temperature play. They offer smooth, firm sensations that some find more satisfying than softer materials.
Stainless Steel
Medical-grade stainless steel is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and long-lasting. It has a firm, cold sensation that warms with body heat—perfect for those seeking that specific tactile experience.
ABS Plastic
ABS plastic is a non-porous, hard plastic that's hypoallergenic and phthalate-free. It's particularly common in bullet vibrators and the handles of combination toys. ABS plastic is easy to clean, won't harbour bacteria due to its non-porous nature, and provides a firm sensation distinct from silicone's softness.
PVC (Polyvinyl Chloride)
If you're considering PVC toys for aesthetic or budget reasons, be a bit cautious. PVC, even when phthalate-free, is porous in nature. Unlike silicone or glass, it contains microscopic holes that trap bacteria, viruses, and body fluids within the material itself. This makes thorough sanitisation extremely difficult. For anal play particularly, this becomes problematic because transferring harmful bacteria to the vagina becomes a genuine risk despite careful cleaning.
Materials to Avoid
Porous materials like jelly, certain plastics, TPE, TPR, and traditional latex absorb bacteria and body fluids, creating hygiene concerns even with thorough cleaning. Additionally, lower-quality materials can leach harmful chemicals or toxins. If you can't identify the exact material, it's worth questioning whether it's worth the risk. Avoid toys labeled simply as "soft plastic," "jelly rubber," or those that don't specify their materials—these typically indicate lower-quality, porous compounds unsuitable for intimate use.
Cleanliness and Care
Before First Use and Between Sessions
Wash your hands thoroughly before handling toys. Clean each toy with warm water and mild soap immediately after use. For non-porous materials like silicone, glass, and stainless steel, this genuinely is sufficient for regular maintenance between sessions.
Deep Cleaning
For more thorough sanitisation, non-porous toys can be boiled in water for 5-10 minutes (ensure they're waterproof first), run through the top rack of your dishwasher, or cleaned with toy-specific sanitising sprays. Medical-grade silicone, glass, and stainless steel handle heat beautifully.
Storage
Store toys in a clean, dry place—ideally in individual pouches or breathable storage containers. Avoid storing in tightly sealed plastic bags that trap moisture. Many Club X products come with convenient storage options that keep toys protected and discreet.
Condom Use for Safety
If sharing toys with a partner or using toys across different orifices, apply a fresh condom each time. This dramatically reduces infection risk. Non-ribbed condoms work best. Never transfer toys from anal to vaginal use without changing the condom or thoroughly washing the toy with soap and water—bacterial transfer can lead to infections.
Lubricant Selection
Water-based lubricants are universally compatible with all toy materials, including silicone, glass, and stainless steel. Club X provides Liquid Silk water-based lube samples with every order—a premium choice known for its creamy consistency and staying power. Avoid oil-based lubricants with condoms, and be cautious with silicone-based lubricants on silicone toys, as they can degrade the material over time.
Safety First: Preventing Injuries and Uncomfortable Emergency Room Visits
Inspect Before Every Use
Check toys for cracks, tears, or damage. Damaged toys can harbour bacteria or cause internal injuries. If a toy is damaged, retire it—no exceptions.
Know Your Anatomy and Communicate
Start slowly and progress gradually. There's no timeline for pleasure. If something doesn't feel right, stop. Pain is your body's warning sign — discomfort might be normal as you explore new sensations, but actual pain warrants stopping immediately.
Avoid High-Risk Situations
Don't use toys on open wounds, stitches, or freshly healed areas. If you're immune-compromised or recovering from surgery, extra caution and perhaps consultation with your healthcare provider is wise. For anal play, never progress to insertion without adequate relaxation and lubrication.
Battery and Electrical Safety
Use only manufacturer-approved chargers for rechargeable toys. Inspect charging ports for damage before use. Keep toys away from water sources (unless specifically waterproof) and never use battery-operated toys in water unless rated waterproof.
Know Your Lubricant
Certain lubricant additives can trigger allergies or yeast infections in sensitive individuals. Glycerin-free, unscented lubes reduce these risks. Liquid Silk is a trusted choice, formulated to be gentle while maintaining excellent performance.
Aftercare
After intense sessions, some individuals experience mild soreness—this typically resolves within hours. However, bleeding, severe pain, or unusual discharge warrants medical attention. There's no shame in seeking healthcare if something feels wrong. Your sexual wellness is medical wellness.
The Consent Conversation: Pleasure Requires Permission
If you're using toys with a partner, explicit communication isn't just recommended,it's essential.
Before You Begin
Discuss desires, boundaries, and concerns openly. What excites you? What feels off-limits? Does your partner enjoy watching, participating, or simply being present? Are there specific toys or techniques either of you is curious about or nervous about? This conversation might feel awkward, but it's infinitely better than discovering during intimacy that someone's uncomfortable.
Safe Words
If you're exploring anything beyond vanilla sex—bondage, intense stimulation, or role-play—establish a safe word: a word that unambiguously means "stop everything immediately." It bypasses the ambiguity of "no" (which might be part of role-play) and creates crystal-clear communication.
Consent Can Change
Agreeing to something today doesn't obligate you to enjoying it tomorrow. You can withdraw consent at any time, and your partner should accept this unconditionally. Honouring safe words isn't optional—it's fundamental to ethical intimate exploration.
Non-Verbal Communication
If you have difficulty speaking during intense moments, establish non-verbal signals: a hand gesture, dropping a toy, or squeezing a specific number of times. The key is clarity—your partner must understand what the signal means and respond immediately.
Making Your Purchase: What to Consider Before You Buy
With so many options available at Club X, how do you know what's right for you?
Your Experience Level
Beginners often benefit from starting with simpler toys: a classic vibrator, a basic bullet, or a straightforward dildo. These teach you what sensations you enjoy without overwhelming you with complicated features or intimidating size. As you become more confident, you can explore dual stimulation, app-controlled options, or more intense sensations.
Size and Internal Dimensions
Not all penises and vaginas are created equal, and neither should toys be one-size-fits-all. Consider:
Length: Deeper penetration feels different from shallow stimulation.
- Shorter toys (4-5 inches) are great for G-spot work
- Longer toys (7+ inches) allow for deeper penetration.
Diameter: Thickness matters. Beginners often prefer thinner toys; those seeking more fullness might gravitate toward thicker options.
Internal Capacity: Your comfort with penetration depth varies. There's absolutely no shame in preferring shallow stimulation or external-only options.
Partner Preferences
If you're using toys with a partner, consider what they enjoy watching or participating in. Some partners feel more connected when they can control the toy; others prefer partnered penetration combined with external toy stimulation. Some simply enjoy being nearby while you pleasure yourself. These conversations clarify what will genuinely enhance your mutual experience.
Material Preferences
Do you prefer the softness of silicone, the firmness of glass, or the coolness of stainless steel? Your body will tell you.
- Silicone is the most forgiving for beginners,
- Glass offers entirely different sensations and easier cleaning,
- Stainless steel provides firmness and temperature play potential
Features and Complexity
Do you want a simple toy with one function or a sophisticated device with multiple vibration patterns, programmable sequences, and app control? More features don't automatically mean more pleasure—sometimes simplicity is perfection. Consider what will genuinely enhance your experience.
Brand Reliability
Trusted brands like We-Vibe, LELO, Satisfyer, Womanizer, and Magic Touch Fun have earned their reputations through consistent quality, transparent materials, and responsive customer service. Established brands typically offer better warranties and reliable charging/functionality.
Budget Allocation
Quality matters with intimate products. Budget toys range from AUD $30-60, mid-range options from AUD $80-150, and luxury toys from AUD $150-300+. Consider this: a high-quality toy you'll use for years offers better value than a cheaper option that disappoints or fails. Your pleasure is worth the investment.
Noise Level
If discretion matters to you, noise level is crucial. Some toys are whisper-quiet; others are definitely audible through walls. Check product descriptions carefully if noise is a concern.
Waterproof Capabilities
If you enjoy bath or shower exploration, waterproof rating is essential. Not all toys with water contact are truly waterproof — check before taking your toys into water.
Aesthetics and Feel
You'll be touching this regularly. Does it feel good in your hand? Does the design appeal to you aesthetically? If you cringe looking at your toy, you're less likely to reach for it regularly. Beauty and function aren't mutually exclusive.
Exploring your body, discovering what brings you joy, and investing in toys that celebrate your sexuality isn't indulgent—it's self-care. It's intimate knowledge. Whether this is your first toy or your fifth, whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, whether you're seeking novelty or deepening existing pleasure patterns—you deserve products made with quality materials, transparent information, and genuine care for your experience.
Your pleasure matters. Your comfort matters. Your consent matters. And Club X is here to support your journey with products that celebrate all three.
