Purchase, Usage, Safety, and Care Guide
Welcome to a space where masculine desire isn't whispered about. Whether you're a first-time explorer curious about what's possible, or an experienced adventurer looking to add new dimensions to your pleasure repertoire, this comprehensive guide will unlock a world of sensation, performance enhancement, and pure bliss tailored exclusively for the male experience.
More than 75% of Australian respondents in sexual wellness surveys admit to regularly using sex toys for self-pleasure, with online channels capturing 63% of all sales in 2025.
What's driving this revolution? Shifting cultural attitudes, increased sexual wellness awareness, and—crucially—technological innovation. Male masturbators represent 27% of the market share, standing as the fastest-growing segment. From performance-enhancing cock rings to revolutionary prostate massagers, from realistic strokers to couples' pleasure devices, the landscape of male pleasure has fundamentally transformed.
Understanding What’s Available
Each category of male pleasure products offers distinct sensations and purposes. Understanding the differences is your first step toward finding what resonates with your body and desires.
Strokers and Masturbators
Strokers are penetrative sleeves designed to envelope your penis, delivering sensations ranging from subtle textured pleasure to intensely realistic encounters. These are the foundation of male sex toy exploration—intuitive, satisfying, and endlessly variable in sensation.
Manual Strokers
These non-motorised sleeves feature textured internal surfaces—ridges, spirals, nubs—that stimulate nerve endings far more effectively than your hand ever could.
Manual strokers demand your participation, allowing complete control over pace, pressure, and intensity. Some are rigid-cased; others are soft and squeezable. Some fit discretely into a pocket; others demand dedicated time and space. The beauty is choosing what matches your lifestyle and privacy needs.
Vibrating and Heated Strokers
When you introduce vibration and warmth to the stroking experience, something magical happens.
Vibrating motors deliver pulsating sensations throughout the internal sleeve while heating elements warm the toy to approximate body temperature, creating an intimacy that feels startlingly real. These devices often feature multiple vibration patterns and speeds, allowing you to customize sensation from gentle humming to powerful pulsation. Some premium models even include app connectivity, letting you sync vibrations with content or have long-distance partners take control.
Suction and Air-Controlled Strokers
These innovators use air-pulse technology to create a vacuum effect that mimics oral sensation with remarkable authenticity.
Rather than direct vibration, they deliver rhythmic pressure waves—imagine gentle suction combined with pulsing rhythm. They're particularly beloved by those seeking a fundamentally different sensation or experiencing sensitivity. Brands pioneering this category have transformed how men think about pleasure beyond traditional stroking.
Cock Rings and Penis Rings
These versatile devices work by restricting blood flow, helping maintain harder erections and prolonging staying power. Traditional cock rings are simple elastomer or silicone bands that slip around your penis base; vibrating versions add powerful micro-motors for extra sensation.
Standard Cock Rings
Simple yet remarkably effective, basic cock rings help maintain erections by restricting outflow of blood. They're particularly valuable for those experiencing mild erectile difficulties or wanting to extend their endurance during partnered sex. Club X stocks quality options from established brands known for reliable performance and comfortable fit across various girths.
Vibrating Cock Rings
When you add vibration to the equation, you're creating pleasure for both partners simultaneously. The vibrations travel through your penis while simultaneously stimulating your partner's clitoris during penetrative sex—approximately 80% of vulva-owners require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, and vibrating cock rings deliver exactly that without requiring manual work. Removable bullet vibrators offer flexibility; built-in motors provide seamless integration.
Couples' Cock Rings
These sophisticated designs often feature separate motors—one for penile stimulation, one for external clitoral contact—or include textured "ears" that position perfectly for clitoral contact during penetration. They're engineered to enhance mutual pleasure, ensuring both partners experience intensified sensation.
Penis Sleeves and Extenders
For those seeking increased girth, enhanced length, or solutions to erectile difficulties, penis sleeves offer practical and pleasurable possibilities.
Penis Sleeves for Girth Enhancement
These hollow sheaths slip over your erect penis, adding girth and texture to enhance stimulation for both you and your partner. Textured internal ridges, bumps, and spirals increase sensation, while the exterior texture—whether smooth, ribbed, or bumpy—provides stimulation to your partner's internal tissues.
Penis Extenders for Length
If deeper penetration is your goal, penis extenders add 2-3 inches of length while maintaining natural feel. They're particularly valuable for couples exploring positions that demand specific depth, or for those wanting to ensure full contact during penetration. Quality extenders use medical-grade silicone to ensure safety and comfort.
Combination Extenders: Girth and Length
For maximum enhancement, combination sleeves add both length and girth—transforming your dimensions in ways that intensify sensation for both partners. Some feature ribbed textures; others include vibration. The variety ensures you find exactly what your body and your relationship needs.
Prostate Massagers
What is the P-Spot?
Your prostate is a walnut-sized gland that sits between your bladder and penis, approximately 2-3 inches inside your anus on the anterior (front) wall. When stimulated correctly, it produces sensations ranging from intensely pleasurable to absolutely transcendent. Many men experience full-body orgasms; profoundly different from traditional ejaculatory orgasms.
How Prostate Massagers Work
These specially curved toys are designed to angle toward your anterior rectal wall, positioning themselves perfectly to contact the prostate. Some vibrate; others require manual movement or pelvic floor muscle engagement to create sensation. The curved design ensures that with each stroke or contraction, you're directly stimulating this pleasure center. The P-spot requires exploration and patience. Regular use often unlocks sensations that grow increasingly intense and pleasurable with practice.
Stamina Trainers and Performance Enhancers
Premature ejaculation (PE) affects many men—those who consistently ejaculate within 1-3 minutes of penetration. The good news? Dedicated training dramatically improves control. The average man without PE lasts approximately 7.3 minutes; with focused practice, many extend this significantly.
Specific strokers and masturbators are designed for PE training. Quality masturbators provide consistent, intense sensation that genuinely challenges your control. With repeated practice during solo sessions, your body learns to recognize the pre-ejaculation point and develops ability to delay orgasm.
Research demonstrates that 8 weeks of consistent training can nearly double your time to ejaculation. One study showed men with baseline ejaculation at 1 minute 44 seconds (103.91 seconds) improving to 3 minutes 52 seconds (232.10 seconds)—more than a 2x improvement. The investment in a quality training toy pays dividends throughout your sexual life.
Anal Toys
For men curious about anal pleasure, a range of toys facilitates safe, enjoyable exploration.
Butt Plugs and Anal Beads
These graduated toys allow gradual, comfortable progression into anal play. Starting small and working upward as your comfort increases prevents discomfort and allows your sphincter muscles to relax naturally. Quality anal toys feature flared bases—absolutely essential for safety—preventing any toy from being drawn fully inside.
Vibrating Anal Toys
Adding vibration to anal play intensifies sensation significantly. Vibrating prostate massagers, anal vibrators, and combined toys offer pleasure while simultaneously stimulating your prostate, creating full-body sensation.
The Material Matters: Making Safe, Informed Choices
The difference between pleasure and disappointment often comes down to material. Your delicate intimate tissues deserve only the best.
Medical-Grade Silicone
Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, hypoallergenic, durable, and easy to clean. Platinum-cured silicone (rather than peroxide-cured) is even superior, with all manufacturing chemicals fully consumed during production. These toys last for years, maintain perfect condition, and feel increasingly luxurious with age. Top brands prioritize medical-grade silicone precisely because it represents the safest, most pleasurable long-term investment.
Borosilicate Glass
Non-porous and exceptionally durable despite their delicate appearance; glass toys offer a completely different sensation—firm, smooth, and gloriously cold before warming with body heat. They're easy to sanitize, can be warmed or cooled for temperature play, and last indefinitely. For men seeking firm penetration or unique tactile sensation, glass offers unmatched elegance and performance.
Stainless Steel
Medical-grade stainless steel is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and remarkably durable. It has a firm, cool sensation that gradually warms with body contact. It's perfect for men seeking that specific tactile experience and is particularly valued for prostate massagers and butt plugs where firm pressure matters most.
ABS Plastic
ABS plastic is non-porous, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and commonly used in vibrator handles and bullet components. It's firm, easy to clean, won't harbour bacteria, and provides an accessible entry point for those budget-conscious about exploring new toy categories.
PVC (Polyvinyl Chloride)
While phthalate-free PVC and latex-free options exist, they deserve careful consideration. PVC contains microscopic holes that trap bacteria, viruses, and body fluids within the material itself, making thorough sanitisation impossible through regular cleaning alone. This becomes particularly problematic for anal toys, where bacterial cross-contamination risks are genuine.
Materials to Avoid
Porous materials like TPE, TPR, traditional jelly, certain plastics, and latex absorb bacteria and body fluids, creating persistent hygiene concerns even with thorough cleaning. These materials can also leach harmful chemicals. Avoid toys labeled simply as "soft plastic," "jelly rubber," or those with undisclosed materials—these typically indicate lower-quality, porous compounds unsuitable for intimate use.
Cleanliness and Care
Before First Use
Wash your toy thoroughly with warm water and mild soap or dedicated toy cleaner. Air-dry completely on a lint-free towel. This removes any manufacturing residues or dust.
After Every Use
Immediately rinse away any lubricant or bodily fluid with warm water. Wash with mild, unscented soap, massaging all grooves, textures, and crevices. For strokers with insertable sleeves, turn the sleeve inside-out if the design allows, ensuring complete cleaning. Rinse until water runs completely clear—no soap residue, no slickness. Pat dry with a microfiber towel and let air-dry completely before storage.
Deep Cleaning
For thorough sanitisation, non-porous toys can be:
- Submerged in boiling water for 5-10 minutes (ensure the toy is waterproof first; remove any batteries or electronic components).
- Run through your dishwasher's top rack.
- Cleaned with toy-specific sanitising sprays for quick wipe-downs between sessions.
What Not to Do
Never skip cleaning even "just this once." Avoid using boiling water on toys with motors or batteries. Don't scrub aggressively with rough sponges—micro-scratches trap bacteria. Never store damp toys in closed containers where moisture and darkness encourage bacterial growth. Never share toys without condoms or proper sterilization between uses.
Lubricant Selection
Water-based lubricants are universally compatible with all toy materials—silicone, glass, stainless steel, ABS plastic. Club X provides complimentary Liquid Silk water-based lube samples with every order—a premium choice known for luxurious consistency and lasting power. Water-based lubes are easy to clean, won't degrade toy materials, and work perfectly with condoms.
Storage
Store toys in clean, dry, breathable pouches or cases—never in tightly sealed plastic bags that trap moisture. Keep toys separate to prevent material interaction. Include silica gel packs if storing for extended periods to control humidity. Store in cool, dark locations away from direct sunlight, which can degrade materials over time.
Travel Considerations
When traveling, keep toys in breathable pouches with silica gel. Remove batteries before packing or ensure toys are in "travel mode" if that feature exists. Clean immediately upon arrival if you couldn't dry completely before packing.
Safety First: Preventing ER Visits
Pleasure should never come with regret or unexpected medical trauma.
Inspect Before Every Use
Check for cracks, tears, discoloration, or damage. Damaged toys can harbour bacteria or cause internal injury. If a toy shows damage, retire it immediately—no exceptions.
Lubrication
For any penetrative toy, lubrication is absolutely essential. The anus doesn't self-lubricate, and friction without adequate lube causes tissue damage, bleeding, and pain. For anal play, use far more lube than you think you need. When in doubt, add more.
Start Small and Progress Gradually
Your body has limits, and discovering them through gentle progression is far better than discovering them through injury. Start with smaller toys, allow your body time to adjust, and only progress when genuinely ready. There's no timeline for pleasure.
Pain is a Stop Signal
Discomfort during adjustment is normal; actual pain is not. If something hurts, stop immediately. Pain is your body's warning system. Ignoring it can result in tissue damage, bleeding, or infection requiring medical attention.
Battery and Electrical Safety
Use only manufacturer-approved chargers for rechargeable toys. Inspect charging ports for damage before use. Never use battery-operated toys in water unless specifically rated waterproof. Keep toys away from water sources to prevent electrical hazards and battery corrosion.
Know Your Body
If you're immune-compromised, recovering from recent surgery, or have existing anal/rectal conditions, consult your healthcare provider before introducing anal play. Your medical history matters—respect it.
Condom Use
If sharing toys with a partner or using toys across different orifices, apply a fresh condom each time. This dramatically reduces infection risk and eliminates complicated hygiene questions. Non-ribbed condoms work best with toys.
Aftercare and When to Seek Help
After intense sessions, mild soreness sometimes occurs and typically resolves within hours. However, persistent pain, bleeding, unusual discharge, or signs of infection warrant medical attention. There's absolutely no shame in seeking healthcare if something feels wrong—your sexual health is medical health, deserving professional attention when needed.
Consent and Communication
If you're introducing toys into partnered sex, explicit communication is essential.
Before You Begin
Discuss desires, boundaries, and curiosities openly. What excites you? What feels off-limits for your partner? Do they want to participate actively, watch, or simply be present? Are there specific toys or techniques either of you is curious about? Is there anything that creates nervousness? These conversations feel vulnerable but prevent far more uncomfortable discoveries during intimate moments.
Why Communication Matters
Some partners feel genuinely threatened by toys—fearing they're being replaced or that they're "not enough." Others find toys intensely exciting, transforming their sex life entirely. Some want to maintain complete control; others enjoy relinquishing it. Open dialogue ensures everyone approaches the experience with realistic expectations and genuine enthusiasm.
Safe Words and Signals
If you're exploring anything beyond vanilla partnered sex—bondage, intense stimulation, role-play, or anything pushing boundaries—establish a safeword: a word that means "stop everything immediately." Choose a word you'd never naturally say during sex, ensuring absolute clarity.
Consent
Agreeing to something today doesn't obligate you to enjoying it tomorrow. You can withdraw consent at any time, and your partner must accept this unconditionally. Similarly, if your partner indicates hesitation, that's legitimate feedback deserving respect. Pressure has no place in consensual pleasure.
Non-Verbal Communication
If you have difficulty speaking during intense moments, establish non-verbal signals: a hand gesture, dropping an object, or squeezing a specific number of times. The key is absolute clarity—your partner must instantly understand what the signal means and respond immediately.
What to Consider Before You Buy
With the wide variety available at Club X, how do you know what's genuinely right for you?
Your Experience Level
Complete beginners often benefit from starting simple: a basic stroker, a straightforward cock ring, or a bullet vibrator. These introduce you to what sensations excite your body without overwhelming complexity or intimidating size. As confidence grows, you can explore dual stimulation, app-controlled devices, or more intense options.
Your Objectives
Are you seeking enhanced solo pleasure? Improved performance with a partner? Addressing premature ejaculation? Exploring prostate sensations? Different toys serve different purposes. A stroker optimizes solo pleasure; a cock ring enhances partnered penetration; a prostate massager opens entirely new dimensions. Clarity about your goal guides your selection significantly.
Size and Your Anatomy
Penis dimensions vary significantly, and toys should accommodate your specific measurements. Consider:
Length: Longer strokers allow deeper thrusting; shorter ones focus on head stimulation. Cock rings must fit comfortably around your shaft without cutting off circulation or feeling painfully tight.
Girth:Stroker internal diameter must accommodate your erect girth comfortably without excessive tightness (which restricts blood flow) or excessive looseness (which reduces sensation). Quality toys come in multiple sizes precisely for this reason.
Preference:Some men prefer maximum tightness; others find it uncomfortable. Some want depth; others prefer head-focused stimulation. Your preferences guide selection.
Partner Preferences
If you're choosing toys for partnered use, consider what genuinely excites your partner. Some partners feel more connected when controlling the toy; others prefer you managing it. Some want to be penetrated with an enhanced toy; others prefer external couples' toys. Some are hesitant about toys entirely and require gentler introduction.
Material Preferences
Do you prefer silicone's softness, glass's firmness, or stainless steel's cool sensation? Your body will tell you. Try to sample different materials if possible before committing to expensive toys. Medical-grade silicone is the most forgiving for beginners; glass offers entirely different sensations and easier cleaning; stainless steel provides firmness prized for prostate work.
Features and Complexity
Do you want a straightforward toy with one function or a sophisticated device with multiple vibration patterns, app control, and programmable sequences? More features don't automatically mean more pleasure—sometimes simplicity is perfection. Consider what genuinely enhances your experience versus what's flashy marketing.
Brand Reliability
Established brands like We-Vibe, LELO, Satisfyer, Magic Touch Fun, and Playboy Pleasure have earned reputations through consistent quality, transparent materials, and responsive customer service. They typically offer better warranties, reliable charging/functionality, and responsive support if issues arise.
Budget
Quality matters profoundly with intimate products. Budget toys range from AUD $25-60, mid-range from AUD $80-150, and luxury options from AUD $150-400+. Consider this: a high-quality toy you'll use for years offers exponentially better value than a cheaper option that disappoints, breaks, or proves uncomfortable.
Noise Level
If discretion matters, noise level is crucial. Some toys operate whisper-quiet; others produce obvious buzzing audible through walls. Check product descriptions carefully if noise is a concern.
Waterproof Capabilities
If you enjoy shower or bath exploration, waterproof rating is essential. Not all toys claiming water resistance are truly waterproof—verify specifications before introducing your investment to water.
Aesthetics and How It Feels
You'll be touching this regularly. Does it feel good in your hand? Does the design appeal aesthetically? Does texture excite you? If you cringe looking at your toy, you're less likely to reach for it regularly.
Exploring your body, discovering what brings you genuine pleasure, and investing in quality toys isn't self-indulgent—it's radical self-care. It's intimate knowledge. Club X exists to serve this philosophy, providing access to premium, body-safe toys without judgment or pretence.
Whether this is your first toy or your tenth, whether you're exploring solo or introducing toys to partnership, whether you're seeking novelty or deepening existing pleasure patterns—you deserve products made with quality materials, transparent information, and sincere commitment to your satisfaction.
