Prostate toys are designed to stimulate the prostate, i.e. the walnut-sized, semen-storing gland that sits between the bladder and the rectum in men.
Stagnant semen is released when it is massaged which cleanses the prostate. If it is ignored, which it often is, it leaves semen stagnant in the prostate which leaves it susceptible to the buildup of bacteria and can cause swelling.
You can access the prostate through the rectum; it sits 1-2 inches up on the stomach side of the rectal wall. Like the G-spot in women, the prostate (also known as the P-spot) contains a lot of nerve endings. This means it is an area that is extremely sensitive to stimulation and can lead to climax within men. Compared to stimulating the penis, stimulating the prostate can lead to more intense and full body orgasms. It can also result in the guy experiencing multiple orgasms. Therefore, using a prostate toy is the perfect way to receive more intense and exciting climaxes.
Prostate toys are not only able to be used for masturbation, but they are perfect for gay and straight couples. As you can use them without hands, they are perfect to use during foreplay or sex and are a low-effort way to pleasure your partner.
Different Types of Prostate Toys
There are heaps of different prostate toys on the market. Prostate massagers can come in lots of different sizes and are made of an array of different materials including glass, steel or silicone. It’s generally best to stay away from anything made of jelly as it is porous and means there’s an increased chance that bacteria can grow inside the toy. Prostate massagers can be non-vibrating or vibrating and can even be beaded like anal beads.
How to Use a Prostate Toy
The most important thing when using a prostate toy is patience. In order to get maximum stimulation, the time must be taken to relax and feel comfortable with your toy. Therefore, it’s better to learn to use your toy first by yourself before using it during foreplay or sex.
If it’s your first time using a prostate toy, it’s best to pick a smooth and soft toy. For first-timers, silicone is a great material to start with. Also, don’t start with the biggest massager you can find. The rectum needs time to stretch and expand, so starting with a large toy may rip the skin in the rectal area.
It’s also super important when picking a toy to ensure that it has a flared base. Unlike the vagina, the rectal passage continues up into your body, therefore it is very easy to lose a toy up there. Choosing a toy with a flared base means that you will always be able to pull it out. Prostate toys that have a curve are also best because they follow the natural curve of the anal passage.
Lastly, if you’ve never used a prostate toy before, it’s recommended you look for a toy with a wide tip. This gives you the greatest chance of finding the P-spot if you’ve never looked for it before. Once you are confident that you can locate the area, you can move to a toy with a smaller tip, which can result in more focused and intense stimulation.
Before using your prostate toy, it’s best to first explore the rectal area with a finger. This way you can figure out what motions and movements you enjoy. Once you feel comfortable using your finger, you can progress to using your toy. It’s extremely important that your prostate toy is clean before you use it. The rectum is prone to infection so make sure you follow the cleaning instructions that come with your toy. This may include using soap, boiling water or using a toy cleaner. Next, it’s really important to lubricate your toy. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating, so using a toy without lube can be incredibly painful.
Once you’ve prepared your toy, it’s time to insert it. The best position to start with is lying on your back and bringing your knees up and towards your stomach before slowly inserting the massager. After the toy is inserted, it’s important to be completely relaxed before trying to use it. Try some deep breathing and relaxing the muscles in your anus. There is no rush, so take as much time as you need at this stage. Once you feel relaxed and comfortable with your toy, it’s time to find the P-spot which, as described above, is found 1-2 inches up the rectum on the stomach side of the passage. Now you can begin to experiment with different motions (you may already have an idea of what you like if you tried some finger experimentation first). Try different movements and applying different amounts of pressure until you find something that works for you. Once you know what you like, and you feel confident using the toy, you can try going hands-free and using the toy during foreplay or sex.
Prostate massagers are a fantastic way for guys to experience intense, full body orgasms. With a variety of different shapes and materials, there is a prostate toy for everyone! Just remember to take your time and enjoy the ride.