Why the Entire Sex Store Is Yours to Explore and Want

Why the Entire Sex Store Is Yours to Explore and Want

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Even though you want it, you stuff it back on the shelf before anyone can see you. Factors such as budget and privacy can limit what you purchase, but so can the fear of being judged. Where does this unease come from?

Whether you’re aware of it or not, marketing affects how you perceive adult products and your relationship with them. Too often, the packaging and language are based on limited ideas about sexuality, gender and bodies. All women have vaginas so they must want ‘female clit stimulators’. All men have penises so they must want ‘male masturbators’.

Gender Image

 

These statements are based mostly on assumptions. Not all women have vaginas and want clit toys. Not all men have penises and want masturbators. When masturbators are labelled as 'male toys', where does that leave women with penises? As you can see, people don’t fall neatly into boxes. Advertisement and categories are nothing more than suggestions that can be dismissed. After all, it’s curiosity and creativity that make sex enjoyable.

How can we buy adult products we truly want?

When deciding what’s right for your pleasure, trust yourself to decide. Consider what sensations you seek out, the lifestyle you live and your personal desires. This self-aware approach lets you shop honestly for yourself without the pressure to meet someone else’s expectation. The entire sex store is truly yours to explore. 

What does it actually look like to buy adult products you want?

It’s easy to say buy whatever you want, but actually doing it is an intimidating task. For inspiration, here are examples of products and the different types of people who can enjoy them.

Lingerie for men

Lingerie Baci

Wearing lingerie is deeply satisfying. Underneath your day wear, it inspires confidence, while in the bedroom it proves irresistible. Besides women, who else can wear lingerie?

Lingerie is simply garments designed for the body, so if you fit into a bra and panty set, why not? Wearing clothes can be an expression of gender and sexuality, but sometimes it's just about looking good and nothing more. Trans men are still men when they wear lingerie. Straight men are still heterosexual when they wear lingerie.

Strap-ons for trans women and gay women

Strap on Dildo Fetish Fantasy

Penetration provides the feeling of being filled up, stretched out and massaged. A strap-on allows you to treat your partner with this triple sensation for powerful orgasms and intimate sex. Besides straight couples who role reverse, who else can wear strap-ons?

Lesbian women who enjoy topping are known for using strap-ons. Trans women who prefer not to use their penis, wear strap-ons as an alternative. As long as the harness secures around your hips and legs, a strap-on is yours to thrust.


Vibrators for everyone

Pretty Love Vibrator

Vibrators rumble and even suction for intense external stimulation. Often these products are seen for women, but who else can use them?

Keep it simple. If vibrating toys feels nice pressed against your body, then it’s right for you. The earth-shaking vibrations of a magic wand don’t discriminate. A clit suction toy will work for anyone who has a clitoris, including trans people. A wider head piece allows those with enlarged clitorises to also enjoy suction.

These are only three examples, but again, toys work to please your body, not meet other people's expectations. If you want to ride a dildo or pinch on some nipples clamps, give yourself the chance to do it. 

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